Introduction

Hey everyone!

I want this blog channel to be about Life. Everything from marriage to procrastination to allergies. All from my personal experience. 

Hopefully this blog channel will help you in some way.



So, Who else out there just got married?

Well I did. My name is Kimberly Pin...No it's not. It's Kimberly Pozzolo.
I got married on July 12th 2013 to an amazing man. Jeremiah. We got married in his moms backyard which was amazing. We had a small wedding about 50 people and everything was put together at the last minute type thing. Half way through the movie we realized that no one had the rings, and before that we were in the wrong spot and the sun was blinding us and so on and so on.

Even though we had a bunch of things that could have gone differently I wouldn't change it at all. It was simple and romantic and it was perfect.

I have been married for a month now but as all couples there are things that aren't always the best about marriage, or any relationship.

This blog is going to be about my personal experience and giving some tips that helped with my relationship and the things we have done to over come any obstacles. I am in no way saying that we do everything right. There is many times where we look back on a situation and think that we could have done better or at least differently.

There are some things that I am not proud of but I feel like we get along very well and we are both usually very open with each other which wasn't always the case.
I think the biggest and most important thing in a relationship in communication and trust. You have to trust that when you put your feelings out there that he\she won't just knock you down or not care. Also you have to be willing to communicate. Tell him\her when something is wrong or when the other is doing something you don't feel is very appropriate. At the same time you have to let them be themselves. While you can criticize as much as you want you aren't going to get anywhere that way.
You need to be open and forthcoming with your feelings. Which is very hard. Me and my husband had to go through many months of practicing communication and it was very hard. You may know that something is wrong with the other person but whenever you ask they say "No" which can make you feel untrusted. The biggest thing for us was that we started with little things. If I was feeling sad and angry I started off with saying that I was in fact angry or sad. I didn't go into detail(that came later in the process) but it was a start.

That is all for today. I am hoping that my experience will help you with your experience as well as your experience helping with my experience.




So, tell me about your wedding?  Was it a big wedding? Winter wedding?